Welp, after asking this question in this thread. I ran a coretemp program, and did a cinebench rendering stress test and the temps were really close to 100c now I'm on 4.7Ghz at 1.350volts and around 78c to 74c average during full load, and that's my max overclock performance which my CPU can handle in a safe state.. I have been running on that volts since 2 weeks I haven't seen any flames bursts yet so not even now since It's much safer. no extinguisher needed sir!
Great, glad I could help!