basically you're looking for a usb soundcard that is compatible with the ps3. there are cheap ones like this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SxnXZlhQpKg
then there are things like the astro mixamp, dss2 and similar which cost more.
which dongle is best? hard to say but i would think the more well known and popular models are a safer choice.
unfortunatley the ps3 does not have analog support like the ps4 does (on controller) or things would be easier.